1. I’ve grown up with siblings and lived with girls in university. You don’t read about the pretty man whom flirted. You learn about just exactly just how she ended up being having a day that is perfectly fine some guy had the gall to speak with her. “I’m here to sort out. Not to ever flirt! ” “I’m here for coffee, not to ever flirt! ” “I’m here to read through, to not ever flirt! ”
The thing that is whole completely incorrect because I’ve been led to trust girls hate being flirted with. Why would i wish to start this kind of discussion?
2. Provided the above, the expectation that is following a guy should result in the move simply seems…insulting? Like, I’m expected to flirt with girls (that they don’t desire) in the chance that is off are into me personally. If i will be incorrect, it is maybe not rejection I’m focused on. I’ve gotten death threats.
Personally I think like I’m being forced to relax and play court jester and in case they like my performance, great. If they don’t, I’m fed towards the crocs. Together with reaction when planning on taking this danger is what….